Some men hold a negative attitude against preventing pregnancy, in most cases for the reason they want to have children. But each one has his own reason. Some men resist because of their religious beliefs that oppose pregnancy prevention.
When a couple shares the same interests and beliefs, it’s great, but when they are not in sync, it is challenging, especially when one might cross a boundary in having an opinion to actually act upon the resistance to prevent pregnancy. For example, men who sabotage the contraceptive method or prevent the woman from using such a method. Then it’s a problem.
I consider it having the same weight as a woman wanting a child against her partner’s will and getting pregnant by deceiving him.
In both cases, there is someone that believes he has the right to control the other’s body and life. And I perceive this as violence.
If you find yourself in such a situation, where you feel that you can’t prevent a pregnancy the way you like, there are few solutions that I can share with you, but will not mention here. Therefore, you are welcome to contact me and we will try to find the best way for you.